The best and worst. In Nature. And in human nature. I’m seeing it all around me.
The best…as in the people who are going to extraordinary lengths to help, to care, to do what needs to be done; the breathtaking empathies-turned-to-action. The small, hopeless, delightful baggage of human nature that could see bright hope in a double rainbow at the edge of the devastation—a freak of Nature that was a symbol of the hard-wired human drive to discover the faith that all would be well, that hope would continue.
The worst…in the disaster-tourists who drove into the devastation just to say they’d seen it…the people who’ve come for more sinister reasons…the outsiders who turn the indescribable horror into opportunities to make jokes or to glean attention for themselves.
The woodwork spawns all sorts of ugliness in tragedies. The recent catastrophes in Japan, and a so-called comedian (whose name will not soil this space, but whose talents were better suited to being the voice of a duck than to an open mic to the public ear) who made jokes about it. No. No. And more: Tweets that forgot that self-glorification was not the appropriate response either for the space or the moment. No. No. The United Airlines ad at Ground Zero that declared “You’ll like where our planes land.” No. No.
All of these, people who should know better. People with whom I have no patience. Acquaintances with whom I’ll have a hard time speaking, knowing what I know. No-brainers are exactly that—or should be. Political correctness is not political. It is just correctness; the good sense to understand that words have the power to wound already hurting hearts.
These are the times that amaze. And appall. That give hope and rob it. To care: Our capacity to feel should be the most immediate and overwhelming instinct of all of us. Indifference is the thing that rips our souls from their foundations and tosses them to the winds.
Joplin, my heart is still with you.
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May 25, 2011 at 3:08 pm
Wild_Bill
Loved this rant. And I ask those that show no respect “Whatever happened to common decency?”
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May 25, 2011 at 5:03 pm
lynnbiederstadt
Decency and more than that. I don’t want to sound curmudgeonly…but seeing what’s coming out of the mouths of folks is blood-boiling. Where are people’s heads? Wait…don’t tell me–I think I know.
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May 25, 2011 at 3:54 pm
The Good Greatsby
I love the rant. Some days I describe myself as a people person and other days I’m ready to shut myself off for weeks at a time.
People are capable of such great highs, and then such lows, and then such highs again. I’m still trying to make up my mind about people.
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May 25, 2011 at 5:02 pm
lynnbiederstadt
Paul, Things are pretty hard down thisaway–not here in SGF, but nearby. And we’re watching the water come up down in Northern Arkansas, so it’s a nervousmaking time. Thank you for giving me a place to go when I need to smile…xo
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May 25, 2011 at 4:55 pm
Rebecca Clayburn-Wright
You know your rants are more interesting to read that some people regular posts…so rant away my dear:)
I agree with exactly what you are saying about the best and worst of it all.
Rebecca
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May 25, 2011 at 5:00 pm
lynnbiederstadt
Thank you, RCW. I was just listening to a friend who grew up in the nearby town of Carthage, and was down there yesterday helping friends who were hard-hit. Tragic. And angry-making.
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